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Thank you so much. Each one of these videos are a blessing.

This is so good …..will be on replay when I have a set-back….ty Marshall

Real question: I married my high school sweetheart and we have two boys. I strongly believe that everything happens for a reason, and I knew I'd marry someone with 2 J's in their name and go to prom with them (we have been together for 22 years, married for 13). I grew up in a co-dependent household.. lots of generational trauma, I'm trying to process and heal from etc. I never really did feel accepted as a child - I abandoned myself in the 5th grade and am learning to find myself again & heal the wounds. Anyway..... That being said, I met someone who was doing construction on our house who happens to be a guy, and my perception of him is that he belongs to himself. He is authentic, free, and lives and loves life. He taught me this just through him being himself. Over the course of time we talked a few hours, and I felt this overwhelming feeling of "THIS IS WHAT I HAVE BEEN MISSING" - Is it the feeling that I wish I belonged to myself?! Or just that I found someone who I finally feel seen/I see them, and feel a belonging to. This is very raw right now because my husband and I had a conversation around whether or not we thought it was appropriate or not for me to stay in touch with this person through phone calls - verdict (my husband said no - because it would lead me down a path of getting emotionally close and therefore lead to cheating). Which to me, feels like I finally find someone with whom I feel that sense of belonging - but the real question is; "Can I find that sense of belonging just with myself?" And then, the bigger question is - - -well then why do we need community? Apparently married people can't have friends with people of the opposite sex, (or the gender that they are married to). help.

This is a beautiful video. Thank you Marshall

Excellent

Ohh yes. I relate to this. The creative stage is where I am at, and it brings up so much for me on an entirely different level, and it’s shown up my emotional perfectionionism. I’m glad that I am where I am at, because I’m learning through the relationships that I am enjoying. At times it’s confrontational to me. And I’m ok with that. Thank you for putting the video together, Marshall. It’s a great support.

I needed to hear this today… I separated from my husband a few weeks ago and I find myself pushing my emotions away feeling. Saying to myself things like “there’s no use to you crying over something you can’t change.” Then I feel guilt and shame about it… my heart is in so much pain, but I just can’t go back to someone who has no respect for me or my wellbeing. Thank you Marshal, you’ve become a very important part of my healing.❤️‍🩹

I’m uncomfortable and I’m totally ok with that.

Oh im really in this one.. right on.. ty

Thank you Marshall.

I love this blunt cake series. Its saving my life!! Thank you! Thank you!❤

THANK You

I don’t know how your channel hasn’t gone viral yet.. your work is incredible! You have helped me more than you’ll ever know. Thank you Marshal.

This was incredibly helpful. I’m going to keep playing this every time I get into the fantasy of who I want him to be, who I thought he was. Thank you Marshal.

Hope this gets popular, going through a co-dependent relationship and I really needed to hear some of these things. Thank you, definitely subscribing. Keep it up please ❤

This is a crux of my codependency….. I have the constant urge to ‘make toxic relationships work’……I need this , ty

I am literally afraid of allowing Emotional Safety.

I'm finding a similar realisation. Be still. 4:13 It's good to hear the concrete points like fixing, avoiding, idealizing and devaluing.

It is called an unloving spirit from the pit of hell (demons)

Im doing a course with Marshall. I've just started to feel after 50 years tools, and someone who really helps. I think its in part because he didnt study this academically, eg for a career. He lived it. And worked out what actually helped. It makes it very real, and life changing.

Glad I came across your chanel, very interesting

Thanks! You are making good content. ❤

Thanks sooooo much. Always love watching your video's. (rarely skip them). You are such a gem explaining things and doing it with so much kindness and understanding. Love to know if your (paidO workshops have replays? (living In Australia) ...so i could watch them i my own time?

Nobody understands codependency better than this guy.

Wow, thank you. This is one of my favorites you have done. I have been trying to figure out why I keep going back when I process something new. I think this is exactly it. I forgot about some of those underlying rules and conditions. They got retriggered.

This is totally me this year 😢

I always appreciate hearing your perspective. Thank you especially for this one. The gentle, truthful way you shared on this concept has helped me greatly in re-engaging with my own inner perspectives on self love.

Rules and conditions. Wow. I hate myself even when I get hurt. I need to break out of this.

Embodied love. I love that. I feel that.

Love you man! :) Good video.

💯 Marshall, I didn't get the job I applied for. I was giving the job authority over my self; worthiness, and deservedness of love. I was down for a day, then yesterday it clicked. I'm loved, unconditionally, and that it's safe for me to be loved. It's safe for me to be me. I walked without fear of impending doom and lack. This has been a game changer. My thoughts, words behaviours are now from a state of love. After a life time of being and living surrounded by an environnent of rage, fear, cruelty and lack.. I've now crossed over to love. 🙏

Thank you, Marshall, for genuine sharing of what you've realised in 7 years distilled into 10 minutes video. Deep, profound, honest as you always do. The best guidance on my way to heal. Thank's! Wish you all the best 🍀

Life changing! Thank you so much for this video

True.

The beginning to loving ourselves is accepting ourselves as we are, perfect beings, in an imperfect world.

Excellent video!! Very helpful! Thank you

Thanks for sharing your knowledge, Marshall! :)